Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Hospice Visit Part 2

Well I went back after work and got to sit there with my Dad for a couple hours. They are pumping a lot of tummy gunk out of him but overall he is definitely more comfortable. He had a couple popsicles and drank more water so that was good to see.

I told him that the family was reading and I asked if he had any messages. He said "Tell them that I love them all and ask them to pray for me." I assured him that his pray force was one to envy. He said that Thursday would be a good day for folks to visit. I'm sure he may tire but he would like to see as many people as he can. If you're local and need directions just email me at dryheatpanzer@gmail.com .

We watched some weird CSI type show and chatted a bit. I told him about my plans to redo my car for him. It'll be like his Nova except it's a VW and that makes it a little cooler in my opinion but I did allow him to believe he was in fact more cool. He liked my painted caliper idea and grey interior and that was something I'm glad we discussed.

Our time may be short so I encourage you to say what you have to say or email me whatever and I will get it to him. He is very aware of his situation and I know he is scared but he is very brave. When I left he reached out and squeezed my hand. I looked at him and just kinda stared for a few seconds. He looked at me then his soft gaze turned to a crusty kinda look and he said "WHAT?!....Help me sit up!" :) ...I knew what he meant though.........so I helped him sit up and I left.

More tomorrow

-Lemorris A

2 comments:

Tanisha said...

Yesterday I went to see my dad 3 times. Each time he gave a little smile then quickly changed it to his "grumpy look". I know what he is trying to say and my not have the words. And that's totally okay with me, his expressions have not changed in years and each one means something different. Despite everything that is happening to him right now, he is still the funniest person I have ever met (besides AJA of course, huh Anthony)
Thanks guys-
Tanisha

Susan said...

Yesterday I visited LeMorris in the afternoon. He looked great, his eyes were clear and green, matching his hospital ensemble. He and Sam and I watched Wheel of Fortune together and talked about his family's coming this week. He gave that beautiful smile of his for a moment and his eyes lit up. It made me think of his quiet observations at family gatherings, where all of a sudden he'll come out with a witty quip that sets everyone back on their heels with laughter. Keep me laughin', LeMorris - it's a great legacy. Your eyes are the window to your soul, and I see love and courage in them. Thank you for this gift. Love to all, Susan